It took me a while to get the courage to say this, and whether or not it is an unpopular opinion: I DO NOT BELIEVE MORE THAN HALF THE STUFF I READ ON SOCIAL MEDIA – ITS NEITHER FACTUAL NOR TRUE!
IN FACT, A LOT IS JUST MANIPULATION AT ITS BEST.
ESPECIALLY WITH PEOPLE SAYING THEY CAN FIX YOU OR DO THIS AND YOU WILL MAKE $$$$!
NUMBER ONE: No ONE thing will ever truly set you to a place of freedom of the mind, body or soul!
NUMBER TWO: If you ever read “Do this simple procedure or this one thing and you will transform and rise or be powerful and free… or do this simple thing and you will make $10k”; my suggestion: call ABSOLUTE BULLSHIT!
Here is why!
Nothing is as easy as a one-step-fix process
Nothing is a quick fix
When it comes to healing and expansion within your life, personal, relationships or business, everything is a process takes TIME and DISCIPLINE.
Sure, there are things that help you expand explosively and guide you forward. BUT it is a journey, not an instant destination. It is a divine process and an uncomfortable, even difficult one at times!
It is only with constant ACTION that things align and you flow.
It is with doing work on what needs realignment in your life that things will start taking on the new shape you’re working towards.
What you need to work on will shift as you evolve, it is not a one-step for everyone, we are all unique with time and growth for any single process we do.
There are layers to everything. These all need to be healed. Then, throw in the trauma that needs to be released on each layer as well!
One day you are killing it and the next you are not… this is a TRUE FACT! This is a reality; this is when you HAVE to push through. These are the times that define you. These are the times that you become a stronger version of yourself by ALLOWING the process to unfold organically!
Also, be okay with a meltdown they are necessary BUT know when to move back into a conscious state of a grateful, loving mind. I know it is a juggling act sometimes; so be okay with imperfection too.
Cut the bullshit and be COMPLETELY honest with yourself and others. People do see right through you eventually! I have seen people who come across saying they are in the best place of their life, making all this money and I KNOW it is total bullshit.
Don’t always be in such a hurry. Allow the layers to shed and understand you are doing fucken amazing. Never judge yourself or other people because unless you are in their shoes because odds are, you don’t see their complete reality.
Stay in YOUR lane, stay on YOUR PATH! Always be kind to YOU! Always be true to YOU!
So many times, I so badly wanted to quit, when all the money dried up, when I just wasn’t breaking through, when I had someone turn on me, when I receive hate messages, when I got called fat and ugly, when I thought: “who would actually want to listen to me?”, when I was attacked indescribably by bullies, when family members told me to dull myself down and not be so showy, when people said moving to Bali was what young people did and that I needed to act my age, when I launched a kick-arse program and got zero people to join, when I posted and got zero interaction.
BE OKAY WITH IT ALL THE ENTIRE LOT!
Be okay with where you are at. Just promise me you will never stop, you will always be moving forward and you will never judge yourself or anyone else AND NEVER EVER EVER beat yourself up.
Being honestly YOU with total authenticity is beautiful and what makes you uniquely YOU. That is your SUPERPOWER.
EMBRACE YOU. BE ONLY YOU!
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